Rules of Engagement vs Return of Investment. The two are completely counter to each other. The more you want one the less you get of the other. Here is why- I am committed to performance whether it be my performance, or it be my families performance, or your performance. You cannot create rules and parameters for growth, you must un-bridle the horse to see him run fast.
See how you balance the two. Take the Unbreakable Balanced Assessment test.